1. We are
a bondage club; all scenes must involve some form of bondage.
2. All scenes
must involve the practice of safe sex. Condoms must be used for
anal sex. We encourage the use of condoms for oral sex.
3. All scenes
must be "safe, sane and consensual."
4. While
we do not have a designated dungeon master, any club board member
has the authority to stop any scene that he feels has reached
an unsafe level. In such a case, we ask that you stop the scene
immediately. You can discuss the issue later.
5. If you
are new to bondage and would like to assist a top in a scene,
feel free to ask permission.
6. After
introductions, the doors will be locked. Only the people at the party now will be here, with the exception of our landlord, who
may come down later.
7. Because
our play is inherently risky, we ask that you keep our play space
drug free. The use of poppers is acceptable.
8. The play
space is a smoke-free environment. Smoking should take place outside
the back door.
9. All beverages
in the refrigerator are available for you. If there is no beverage
there to your liking, bring some the next time, preferably in
cans.
10. If you
wish to have beer, we encourage you to drink responsibly. Anyone
clearly intoxicated will be asked to leave.
11. You are
free to leave the party at any time. However, we do not offer
in and out privileges. If you leave, you will not be readmitted that evening. We hope you will return later for another one of our parties..
12. To minimize
distraction to scenes in progress, all socializing should be kept
to the confines of the kitchen. Even there, talk should be kept
to a relatively low level.
13. Because
of the need to be considerate of our landlord's top-floor tenants,
noise in the back room, where the ventilating ducts are, should
be kept to a minimum.
14. If someone
approaches you for a scene and you do not feel the chemistry is
right, we ask that you consider the other person's feelings and
be polite in your refusal.
15. Scenes
are between the top and the bottom. If you wish to join a scene
in progress, please wait for a suitable opportunity, then ask
the top for permission to join. The top should ask the bottom
for his approval of an additional person in the scene. In some
scenes, especially mummification, the top may ask for your assistance.
16. Our tops
have a wide range of skills and can play at differing intensity
levels. Don't assume that because you see someone playing one
way that that is the only thing they can do. You should ask for
what you want.
17. Most
tops and many bottoms have more equipment with them than they
will be using. They are usually more than willing to lend
you extra ropes or toys. Ask politely and remember to return
anything you have borrowed before the end of the evening.
18. Be considerate
in your use of club equipment. If you get it dirty, clean it up.
19. We do
not have maid or slave service. At the end of the evening, please put all
cups, cans and bottles in the trash cans in the kitchen.
